Are All Line Dances Cheesy?

Are All Line Dances Cheesy?

I’ve attended many DJ conferences in my life and the discussion of what is “cheesy” and what isn’t is often bandied about. I’ve heard such words of wisdom as “cheese is in the eye of the beholder” and “all DJs are assumed cheesy until proven otherwise.” And while there is truth to both of those statements I’ve never understood why line dances such as The Electric Slide or The Cupid Shuffle sometimes get labeled as cheesy. Maybe it’s because they tend to get overplayed and some couples are loathe to have any organized or group dances at their wedding (which is fine if that’s your preference) but just because one or two are played doesn’t automatically make that reception extra cheesy.

It's not what you say it's how you say it. Sincerity is the key to anti-cheese
It’s not what you say it’s how you say it. Sincerity is the key to anti-cheese

First of all, “cheesy” has a lot to do with the MC at a wedding. Some DJs have no sincerity in their voices and they come across sounding very schlocky – like the typical “game show host.” So no matter what an MC like that says, it’s going to sound cheesy. That’s why hearing an MC speak on the microphone before you hire him is essential. You can do that by seeing video footage or going to a showcase. If the DJ you’re considering doesn’t offer either of these opportunities you should wonder why.

Other MCs understand that the most important thing we can do is be real and in the moment. We speak from a place of sincerity and honesty and so even if we do something that is perceived as cheesy (most obviously example: The Chicken Dance”) we can do it

without everyone in the room cringing. Sincerity is something we look for at Elite, by the way. It’s not a quality you can teach or train. You either have it or you don’t and I can tell you every Elite Entertainer has it in spades. We sincerely enjoy doing parties so we don’t have to put on a fake voice to sound happy. We just are happy.

And here’s the thing about line dances: they can be a great way to kick start a party.

Some parties don’t need a kick start so for those events a line dance is superfluous. But for those that do, an organized dance, especially if it’s lead by an MC who can teach everyone to do the steps, can be a great way to “break the ice” and get everyone comfortable with dancing. I’ve seen many parties through the years that just needed that one thing to get everyone up and then they became great events. It’s sort of like pushing a rock downhill. One good shove and then it’s rolling freely. That’s what a line dance can do for some parties.

Having an MC lead a Line Dance can be a great ice breaker
Having an MC lead a Line Dance can be a great ice breaker

Also, there are some people at every party who don’t have a dancing partner. A line dance can be a great opportunity to allow that person to dance instead of sitting around all day.

Ultimately the decision to play an organized line dance is completely up to you. It’s a question we will ask you in the planning process because we want your opinion about it. But just know that playing one or two doesn’t mean your reception will be thought of as cliché or cheesy. That has much more to do with your MC’s personality and vocal quality than the songs he plays.

 

Look at the different age groups that are dancing here. Line Dances can be universal
Look at the different age groups that are dancing here. Line Dances can be universal

Leave a reply

UPCOMING SHOWCASES - SEE US LIVE

august 2017

No Events

september 2017

13sep6:45 pmButtonwood Manor in Matawan
26sep6:45 pmThe Sunset Ballroom at the Lobster Shanty in Pt Pleasant

october 2017

29oct12:00 pmJacques in Middletown
29oct1:00 pmBranches in West Long Branch

november 2017

No Events

december 2017

No Events